doll hall - apothecary
welcome to the apothecary!
Your task right now is to focus on the following themes:
care, support, growth, healing
care
tending with attention & empathy
support
uplifting & empowering
growth
fostering development & transformation
healing
restoring a sense of wellbeing
the apothecary
One visits an apothecary to find nurturing, healing, support, and to restore balance.
You can benefit from visiting the apothecary if you are:
- feeling emotionally or creatively depleted and need renewal
- giving more than you receive and struggling to refill your own cup
- wanting to create something that feels more compassionate or heart-led
- needing to rebuild trust, confidence, or self-worth after a setback
- seeking gentler ways to grow without burnout or pressure
- searching for a sense of balance
Keywords: care, support, growth, healing, compassion, comfort, restoration, nourishment, guidance
The Connection Hall focuses on empathy, collaboration, and shared meaning. This hall encourages community and invites you to build relationships that feel supportive.
care - tending with attention & empathy
Your job is to nurture with presence to foster wellbeing.
✨ Current Obstacles:
- "The care feels nonexistent, incomplete, draining, imbalanced, or disengaging."
- "I'm not sure how to show or act on care."
What does true care look like to you? Are you willing to prioritize care?
Remind yourself that you can only give or receive the depth of care you give to yourself first. We can show ourselves that care by setting and consistently honoring our own boundaries with our time, energy, space, and thoughts.
Guilt often comes up as a reason for why so many of us struggle with self-care (boundaries). Remember that our overall wellbeing comes first and foremost, no matter who we disappoint or what expectations we fail to meet. When we feel balanced, we are teacing others to find their own sense of balance too.
Listen to your unique body, mind, and emotional cycle to understand what types of boundaries to set and how you most want to experience nurturing.
support - uplifting & empowering
Your job is to navigate challenges through steady guidance.
✨ Current Obstacles:
- "I feel unsupported."
- "I feel that I lack the tools to give or receive the proper support."
Who or what gives you a consistent feeling of safety?
The goal is to develop an internal structure that gives us a sense of support, especially when we find that external support seems scarce.
We can build this structure when we have a solid foundation of safety within ourselves. When we feel safe, our nervous system feels calm enough to allow us to think clearly, make confident decisions, and reach out for help when needed. That internal sense of safety is the core of the support system that helps us navigate challenges.
What does safety look like to you, and how can you bring more of that into your life? When you learn how to give it to yourself, you can know how to both give it to and receive it from others.
growth - fostering development & transformation
Your job is to move towards your full potential through evolution.
✨ Current Obstacles:
- "I don't feel like I am progressing as I hoped."
- "I'm not sure how to expand, grow, or improve."
- "I'm scared of the uncertainty that comes with growth and change.
What past patterns have helped you grow or held you back?
Our behaviors, habits, and beliefs can show us when we thrive and when we get stuck. When we recognize these repeating patterns, we can be more intentional about our growth.
Notice how multitasking tends to make you feel stuck. How you may tend to wait for other people's approval before you take a risk. How you tend to notice your own inner dialogue more when you choose to eat breakfast. Connect the dots and consciously choose actions that continue to help you grow.
Growth requires us to leave our comfort zones and comes with some level of uncertainty. So also take note of which routes have felt easiest for you in the past in order to help to leave your safety zone again.
healing - restoring a sense of wellbeing
Your job is to bring about balance, harmony, and peace.
✨ Current Obstacles:
- "I don't know how to heal or move forward efficiently."
- "I struggle to trust that healing is possible."
What is one small act of care that you can engage in?
Each time we acknowledge the moments we feel discomfort and make the steps to resolve those feelings, we are healing! Observe and investigate your triggers, discomforts, patterns, and experiences.
There are many tiny things we could do - physically, mentally, emotionally - that can restore our sense of peace. Healing usually comes in the form of small things that remind us that we are loved and safe.
The steps we take can even be as simple as committing to a daily morning routine of adding to our gratitude journal. Or deciding to set boundaries. Choose steps that feel manageable, as accomplishing each step will give you a greater sense of confidence in your own strength.
brainstorming business ideas
You can think about your brand as both your personality and the impact you leave on others.
Your authentic self is your authentic impact.
- You can embody the themes of the apothecary in your personality.
- You can embody the themes of the apothecary as a foundation to build any area of your work (or life).
- You can make your audience aware of the themes of the apothecary.
- You can inspire others to also embody the themes of the apothecary.
Ask yourself these questions:
- Check the keywords above to see if they naturally align with you.
- Think of activities you love / might love to do - could you pursue them from the value set that the apothecary represents?
- Close your eyes and imagine how it would feel to bring people to your apothecary.
- Does it feel fulfilling for you? If so, why? If not, why not?
- How are others affected by your apothecary?
- Can you see yourself growing both more comfortable and more curious in this role?
You can use any / all spaces as a foundation for your business and life. A space can represent:
- the foundation that your business is built upon
- a guide for you to make decisions
- a temporary or permanent foundation
- a framework you use for certain processes only
- how you want to show up in the world
- how you want to impact others
- the values that you want to integrate
Why are doll halls so important?
The more clear we are on the role we want to embody & play in the lives of others, the easier it is to give our business a sense of direction and purpose. This is the purpose that grounds us on our path and helps us overcome the challenges that come our way.
As we evolve, we may want to explore other spaces or just remind ourselves what our center is made of. We can lean into these archetypes at any point, whether we commit to just one, are drawn to several, or shift into all of them.
Here are the other tools you can use to start building your business:
- free information profile
- find a career doll
- book a doll call - 1:1 call with Valerie
- toolkit - small business resources
- doll diaries - journal prompts
- the dollhouse - community